I know so many of you have known for quite some time that yes, divorce happens. See I started this blog in 2006 shortly after my oldest was born as journal to her life. While I did that for her and her sisters I also held onto this dream of that ordinary life. My healing from my traumatic childhood allowed me to see a lot of my marriage for what it was. In return I learned to embrace the truly extraordinary parts of myself that brought me here today. In fact it is my hope that he would also do the same as well and we find the ability to coparent in this next stage of parenthood.
So many know my story. I aged out of foster care right into a marriage and held onto that dream of an ordinary family. I worked really hard for that and I am really proud of that part of my life. Embracing myself in the most authentic way possible has been one of those most exciting experiences of my life. Living alone. Learning to actually pay my bills. There’s so much much more for me that without a doubt my life continues forward in this extraordinary new way. My daughters long term well -being will always being my top priority and I will remain committed to that first and foremost. The girls won’t be included here moving forward only me and my life. If they chose to allow me to share then I will but as the first generation of blogger kids grows up they do deserve the privacy they were not given as babies.
I want to call it my next big adventure but my experiences on dating apps has proven…….do NOT use that word! 😀
Love one another friends – Kristin