Well if you’ve ever have been bullied like me then you’ve had fake Twitter accounts made about you, sent a cease and desist order and even hired a lawyer (which is very costly), just to think that maybe the problems will end. They dont even after having asked her to stop. I have been keeping my current pregnancy a secret because I knew as soon as she found out she would tear my family apart like she did during my last pregnancy. I have tried to ignore and tried to fight it the legal way. I have given up as a blogger trying to defend myself since I can only do so much since bullying laws with adults don’t exist and are very unclear. She says I stalk her yet I’d like to know how. What do I do to deserve this? You don’t like me which is fine but why day after day try to tear me apart?
I am sick and tired of crying. I am sick and tired of begging people to not listen to her. To her destroying the business I worked hard to create. I will not allow her to take my pregnancy from me again. To make me miserable every single day that I am online. I am a young woman of 26 years with 2 kids and do not need to be tormented by a 35 plus year old lady who lives in rural Iowa.
So every time she bullies me I’m going to publicly post her own words, which is what I have always used. So that maybe if she truly reads what she says she will see how hurtful and how unnecessary her actions are. I will not bash her. I will not trash her. I never have. I will just show you in her own words what she has done to me.
Starting now I will show you the past month:
On October 8th my family and I went to Great Wolf Lodge. My Brooklin got her very first Uggs that day and I posted a picture of her in them. 20 minutes later Tanya Gordon aka Mommy Goggles had this tweet. (click to enlarge) I posted a picture of my Brooklin and her new ‘ugg’ looking boots we got her.
I spelt cinnamon wrong on Oct 30th. and sure enough after accusing us of all sorts of lies she had to make sure to connect the dots to herself. For someone who says I stalk, why do they hang on all my actions, then once I call her out, says if people want the truth to ask her. Well here is one better, screenshots of what is said and when.
But prior to this comment, she had been going on on the same lies and defamation she has created for years. Trying to paint my hunsband out as a criminal. All the below images where mentioned hours before my cinnomon comment. She has called my husband a mooch on the notordinarylife twitter acount and in her blogposts about him, and on twitter along with other remarks related to couple ‘Mashelle Tanya Gordon’ knows. Funny thing I gave her a chance to actually meet me at BlogHer 2011 and she wouldnt even look me in the eye or even stand in my direction (somethign to hide?), then created a big lie about it. She goes on about how my husband sells drugs and we live off the Government. She continues on with many other things because I go to college full time and run my blog, and pay taxes. I do make money off f my blog, which she has made it clear she wants to ruin, cand she has been working at it. Oddly enough I make quite a decent amount of cash from my blog, I just don’t tell everyone about it, it’s no ones business. I deserve privacy.
And then she found out I was pregnant last week and she went on about how people should be spayed and neutered. How I am on government assistance. And how it all relates back to me, she again says that I’ll go buy booze now that I got my license and can drive (which I have many screenshots of her friends admitting her taking digs at me for my DL license and many know about her blog posts accusing me of being a drunk when pregnant with Brooklin, she is trying to ruin this pregnancy for me like she tried/did last time.)Â If you remember back to the past, the fake twitter account and Tanya Gordon herself posted images of me sitting next to wine while pregnant. I was harassed my entire pregnancy this same exact way. (click to enlarge images)
It goes on and on as you can see all the screenshots from just the last month. This is just within the last couple of weeks. And this has been going on for years. And there has been little I can do. I ignore it, then I get emails from comapnies saying they get anonymous letters about me. I find out there are complaints floating around due to her ONLY. No one else has disliked me, except those who are friends of hers. I get it, they have that right. But just keep your hate to yourself please.
I am well aware of what drawing attention to this situation may do. Maybe companies won’t want to work with me because they want no part of the drama, they don’t want it tainting their brand image. I fully understand that and take full responsibility of the consequences. I dare to ask why someone who repeatedly says they are stalked would go out of their way to interject themselves into my life.Â Why they would care if I was pregnant, or whatever 100 other claims she makes.
If brands don’t want to work with me for standing up for myself I don’t want to work with them. I don’t want to associate with people who think this behavior is right. I will not allow her to take my pregnancy away from me again. So if positing her own words make me look bad then so be it. You all claim that teens should defend themselves and children should not be treated this way, why should grown women?
What do you do when a bully will not stop?
What do you do if a bully will not stop and you are a blogger? I guess you post everything that they do so maybe they’ll see what they are doing is WRONG! I’ve tried. I’m sure Tanya will write a blog post and try to justify to herself and her readers why she is being stalked. It will all come down to the fact that I plagiarized her. I copied a press release actually a recipe that we did for Mom Central. That’s why I deserve this according to her. How else can she justify this constant behavior?
There is soo many of these instances, plus a list of letters obtained by my lawyer of letters she has sent to different agencies, police, AG, twitter, my web host, etc. They accuse me of death threats and the like. I also have screenshots of her blog posts where she accuses me of being on welfare, and her long list of lies. Its all digitally there. I am working on a legal remedy, but until then she will not quit and I thank the brands who support this behavior. I dont want anyone to ask me for the truth like she tells everyone to ask of her, I just want to provide what she has doe in regard to myself and my family.